WHAT ROMANCE IS NOT VS. WHAT IT IS

When you communicate love to your partner in your own love language, he or she might find it difficult to perceive such a kind gesture as love; therefore, it is very important that you also patiently learn your partner’s love language so as to speak love to him or her deeply and loudly. In contrast, if you are not sensitive enough to love yourself as required, you cannot be patient and committed enough to love your partner rightly.

Forgiveness is not a talent but a choice that comes with the responsibility of being in a marital relationship, as a blissful marriage is made up of two continuous forgivers.

A number of people usually find it hard to sustain their attraction for their partners or continue to consistently foster commitment to their spouses as required after marriage because they fail to understand the affectionate or romantic nature of love.

However difficult the feedback may be, it surely means a lot to your partner because not being able to give constructive feedback as soon as it is due or as required may communicate emotional distance to him or her and be a source of marital gridlock.

To understand how your partner receives and gives love, you will have to understand what acceptance means to him or her, because where there is no total acceptance, resentment is inevitable.