Just as Rebecca was ready to become cursed as she was willing to sacrifice anything in order to make Jacob get blessed instead of his brother Esau, a choleric spouse is exceptionally strong-willed and will do anything possible to see his or her dream come to fruition.
The spouse of a choleric will need to be involved in his goals and vision. He or she will be left out if not involved because to a choleric, achievement gives the world its meaning.