God is intentional about working on our weaknesses and making us fit for this long-term agenda. His intentional plan embraces opposite attraction, for where one is weak, another is strong, and this guarantees good synergy, multiplication of strength, and high productivity.
Imagine the home of a choleric husband and a choleric wife; surely everyone is the boss as each of them confidently positions himself or herself in the driver’s seat of their marriage, and as a matter of fact, accidents are inevitable on such a marital journey.