MEDICAL COMPATIBILITY; RHESUS FACTOR.

Your past record, realities, background experiences and future aspirations should be laid bare to anyone you intend to marry. If he or she can’t cope with the truth, just let go.

In getting your marital conviction clearly, you need to first come to the knowledge of who God is to you, then the knowledge of who you are (revise January’s Series for more details on this), then your life mission is a very important guide, while you will also need to know what God says about who you should marry; all these factors played out in Isaac and Rebecca’s relationship.

Social compatibility is needed for all-round acceptance in a marital relationship, as its absence could predispose a couple to abuse of one another’s basic human needs or rights, which include the need to socialize.

You cannot be better than what you think about yourself neither can you relate better with others or to your spouse better than how you relate to yourself.

The fact that you understand what commitment is and laid the right foundation to stir it in your marital relationship might not be enough to make commitment consistent or natural to your marital relationship.