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It is expedient that you help your spouse to be assertive while you lead by example; do not say he or she can only lie to others or insult others but not you, for you will both bear the consequences of such insecurity.

When a person has a poor estimation of himself or herself, he/she has negative self-perception or poor self-image.

One of the symptoms such a person exhibits is lying and insulting other people in driving home his/her point; howbeit, lying is a behavioral misconduct that is associated with negative self-concept. It is important for our ‘Yes’ to be ‘Yes’ and our ‘No’ to be ‘No’, which will be easily achieved when our esteem is enhanced through positive self- perception.

A number of people suffering from negative self-perception do find it convenient to neglect the care of theirselves at the expense of circumstances and dictates of others.

A man cannot be better than his profession or confession about himself. When you don’t believe in yourself, it will show in how you address yourself.

There are indicators that reveal how well a person’s self-esteem or self-perception is; when one or two of these indicators or characteristics pop up in our daily dealings with people, they can easily tell where to place our esteem, which further affects how well we relate to our marital challenges.