COURTSHIP

The tone of voice can be carefully selected as formal, informal, humorous, serious, optimistic, motivational, respectful, and assertive depending on the type of message to be sent out, the personality and mood of your spouse at the time, plus the channel (text, voice, video, gesture, etc.) you have chosen to communicate your thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

Language-use is very important in a marital relationship, as it can stand as a communication barrier if it is not clear and simple.

Simplicity is a virtue and not a weakness

Many a time, the barrier to effective communication is not an intellectual gap but ambiguity. For effective communication to take root in a marital relationship, intimate partners must embrace simplicity in their communication style.

The quality of feedback gotten in the process of communication depends on how well the information or message is understood. For this reason, the message to be passed to your spouse has to be passed with all simplicity.

The process of effective communication consists of a sequence of actions that must be taken into consideration so as to make communication successful.

This quarter, we are looking into the portfolio of an irresistible lover, that is, those virtues that you need to have if you will become irresistible to your marital partner. Last month we started with mutual understanding, which might be difficult to come by without adequate information about your partner. For this reason, I emphasized the importance of getting information from your spouse or intending spouse last month, which I will also continue with this month, as knowledge births good understanding, which is necessary for a sustainable, blissful home.

To maximize your marital relationship as God intended, you need adequate knowledge about marriage and about your intending spouse or spouse, we narrowed down to knowledge about your spouse this month. Knowledge about your spouse can only be made possible if you have enough information about him/her which begins by knowing how to make him or her talk to you heart-to-heart, for the more he or she can confidently share his or her deep thoughts and feelings with you and vice versa, the easier you become one with one another.

Overcoming phone or social media addiction is simple, especially if one is deliberate about it, though it might not be easy because most people have their phones as their second office.