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The partner of a phlegmatic will need to understand that the greatest emotional needs of his or her phlegmatic spouse are peace, serenity, and respect.

Phlegmatic individuals are usually loved by most people because of their calm nature. They love people genuinely, and they love to be around people; though they are not outspoken, they have a sense of dry humor that makes them stick to their company.

The phlegmatic spouses are peaceful personified, relaxed, easy going, consistent, kind, sympathetic, witty, quiet, collected, cool, and calm. However, peace is the hallmark of the phlegmatic trait. Abraham and Isaac were both men of peace; they showed this phlegmatic trait by how they avoided conflicts and how willing they were to give anything in exchange for peace.

Melancholy spouse will need to trust God to be less judgemental and less critical on himself/herself so as not to raise a nervous child, who is well talented but less confident

A number of persons with melancholy traits are addicted to pornographic materials, masturbation, and drugs and thereby susceptible to depression because of guilt and shame, and they also could be easily subjected to unhealthy self-esteem and negativity because they are highly critical and analytical in their approach to life.

Many opposite sex do find the melancholy very attractive because of their well-organized nature and for their intellectual capability

The partner of a melancholy person needs to trust God to be sensitive as to what emotion his melancholic partner feels per time since he/she is not emotionally expressive, thereby helping him/her to be less resentful.

Melancholy spouses find it easy to make amends, though they are extra cautious; nonetheless, they are socially insecure, skeptical, remote, withdrawn, and don’t want to be opposed.

The children of a choleric spouse could be prone to Attention Deficiency Hype- Syndrome (ADHS) because their workaholic nature usually prevents them from spending enough time with their children.